Wednesday, 30 September 2009

Can Men And Women Really Just Be Friends??

Now, this is probably one of the toughest questions out there, and does any one actually know a real or even a good answer for this!?
I'm sure whilst reading this, you are thinking of a time you had with a guy, where you were friends, then something happened but the friendship either got stronger or weakened.
Personally, it has happened to me. Its happened to the best of us.

I have a best friend, we have been for years but there was always the "if" factor there. We always thought we would get married and have kids. That was until we actually got together and realised it wasn't meant to be, but now the friendship isn't as great either. It's always going to be one of more difficult situations in life.

I decided to ask my sister this question and she told me her friend is actually having this problem right now. They have been friends for years, like brother and sister even, but recently he has hinted that he feels more for her. She does not feel the same therefore does not want to bring up the subject because if he says that yes, he does feel more for her, this could be awkward.

If he really is her best friend, he has seen her at her worst. Slumbering around in PJ's, being depressed, first thing in the morning, sick as a dog and she has most likely farted in front of him. All this meaning she felt very comfortable around him. So this could only mean one thing if he does really like her....
Guys are attracted to our flaws!!!!!

Men dont believe we can just be friends but women do... men out there, is this true??


  1. i do agree with you here, but it also happens to boys too. where why get fucked over by girls. oh its such a confusing topic

  2. My answer is - men and women *can* just be friends, even very close friends. I have a lot of female friends who I feel nothing towards other than friendship and vice versa.

    Everyone has friends of the opposite sex who they'd like to get to know more intimately, though, and maybe others don't share my view.

  3. i don't think men and women can ever just be friends...i think somewhere along the lines one or both of them has had stronger feelings than just friends. i think the fear of rejection stops people from acting on their feelings and they end up settling for friendship because its the closest thing they can have to a relationship with that person!

  4. thanx for ur comments people. it is such a hard topic!
    i think you have to follow your head and heart in the situation..